Being Chosen Changes Everything
PNW FCA Ministry • April 20, 2022
You know that feeling you can’t seem to escape when you’re attracted to someone, and you just want to be noticed? Maybe you wear your favorite perfume or cologne and you put on that color that makes your eyes pop. Maybe you’re the best version of yourself when they’re around: funny, intelligent, put together, accomplished…
We’ve all been there.
When we want to be
chosen by another person, we tend to
work really hard
to gain their approval or acceptance.
This happens a lot in sports. It kind of has to. If you want to make Varsity, you have to prove yourself to Coach. If you want that scholarship to play at your dream school, your stats and skills have to be up to par.
But then, that magical moment happens:
you’re chosen. You start dating that guy or girl you’ve had your eye on. That school calls you up because they’ve seen your tapes and they want you on the team–you’re in. And now, while the pressure never fully disappears, you actually get to enjoy yourself again.
Being chosen changes everything.
Thankfully, there’s an
even better kind of belonging than that of romance or athletics, and you don’t have to do anything to earn it. Enter: Jesus.
When you’re in Christ, you’ve been chosen by God, and he gives your life meaning and promise–more than you can imagine.
In
John 15:16, Jesus says: “You did not choose me, but I chose you. I appointed you to go and produce fruit and that your fruit should remain, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he will give you.”
You’re accepted and appointed because God chose you… not the other way around! Once you’ve been chosen by God (which is true for anyone who is a Jesus-follower), everything you do can flow from a place of
approval
and
acceptance.
Now, you obey God and produce spiritual fruit not because you’re striving to earn his favor, but because
you’re delighting in his grace!
You can’t gain God’s approval by attending Bible studies or going to church or using verses in your Instagram captions. You can’t earn God’s acceptance by leading a ministry or saying all the right Christian things or trying as hard as you can to avoid sin. The only thing that makes us right with God is the
forgiveness and righteousness found in the
blood of Jesus Christ. God chooses those who know they need what Jesus did on the cross (Romans 3:22-26)!
Here’s the best part: God will never un-choose you. Your girlfriend or boyfriend might break up with you, or Coach might bench you for the rest of the season… you might get fired from your dream job or rejected for a loan… But when you’re chosen by God, it’s a done deal (Romans 8:31-39).
You now have
purpose (producing spiritual fruit) and power (access to the Father through Jesus) that can
never be taken away!
The greatest source of
confidence and
identity is this: you didn’t choose God…
he chose you. There’s
nothing good you can do to earn it, and there’s
nothing bad you can do to lose it. You simply get to respond to that security by following God in faith and obedience.
Here at
Fellowship of Christian Athletes, it’s our goal to encourage and come alongside you in your walk with the Lord–in sports, in school, and in life.
Come say hi!
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Handling Conflict on the Team: Biblical Wisdom for Tough Conversations "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love." – Ephesians 4:2 Team dynamics are full of energy, emotion, and competition. As a coach of young Christian athletes, conflict will inevitably arise. But every disagreement is a chance to teach your team how to handle tough moments with grace, truth, and Biblical wisdom. Instead of avoiding conflict, you can lead your athletes to approach it as an opportunity for growth, unity, and spiritual maturity. Understanding the Source of Team Conflict Athletes come from different backgrounds, personalities, and motivations. In a competitive setting, frustration can surface, egos can clash, and tension can build. While conflict might seem like a threat to team unity, the Bible reminds us that God can use all things for good (Romans 8:28). When approached with humility and wisdom, disagreements become moments to teach communication, empathy, and forgiveness. Ephesians 4:2–3 encourages us to maintain unity through patience and love. Remind your team that unity doesn’t mean avoiding disagreement—it means navigating it with a Christ-centered mindset . Biblical Principles for Resolving Conflict Scripture is full of guidance on how to handle conflict. Here are a few key principles: Gentleness and humility – Proverbs 15:1 says, "A gentle answer turns away anger." Teach your team that tone and approach matter. Direct communication – Matthew 18:15 instructs, "If your brother sins against you, go and rebuke him in private." Encourage players to talk things through respectfully, not behind each other’s backs. Forgiveness and reconciliation – Colossians 3:13 reminds us, "Forgive as the Lord forgave you." Model and encourage a culture of grace and restoration. These truths don’t just resolve conflict—they shape character. Coaching Strategies for Tough Conversations As a coach, your role is to guide—not just to correct, but to shepherd. Here’s how you can approach conflict resolution in a faith-filled way: Create a safe environment – Let athletes know they’re heard. Set the tone with empathy, not judgment. Facilitate honest dialogue – Guide conversations that allow teammates to share how they feel and seek understanding. Use Scripture to shape conversations – Let God’s Word set the tone for humility, truth, and unity. Coach through reflection – Ask: “What would it look like to honor Christ in this moment?” By practicing these steps consistently, your team learns to value both honesty and harmony. Building a Culture of Trust and Respect Conflict resolution begins long before disagreement. It’s rooted in a team culture of love , trust, and shared values. Romans 12:10 calls us to "Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves." You build this culture by: Modeling Christlike behavior – The way you handle your own frustration sets the tone. Celebrating mutual respect – Affirm selflessness, not just performance. Setting expectations early – Let your team know that how they treat each other matters as much as how they play. When trust is the foundation, hard conversations become growth moments—not breaking points. Leveraging Retreats and Devotionals for Unity Team retreats, devotionals, and spiritual checkpoints are powerful moments to reinforce unity and address conflict in a non-threatening space. Retreats allow your athletes to breathe, reflect, and re-center their hearts . Ideas to consider: Host a team devotional on conflict resolution. Use team bonding time to practice empathy and active listening. Incorporate prayer circles for shared understanding and healing. In these safe spaces, walls come down, hearts soften, and teammates connect. Lead with Faith, Love, and Truth Conflict doesn’t have to be a disruption—it can be a discipleship moment. By leading your athletes through tough conversations with biblical wisdom, you teach them how to resolve conflict not just as teammates, but as followers of Christ. Reflection Questions for Coaches: How can I model a Christlike response when conflict arises? Am I creating a culture where honesty and respect thrive? What Scripture can I share with my team to encourage unity? With each conversation handled with love and truth, you are preparing your athletes to become peacemakers—not just on the team, but in every part of their lives.
"Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing." – 1 Thessalonians 5:11 As a Christian parent, one of your most powerful tools is encouragement. In youth sports, where pressure, comparison, and burnout can take a toll, your words and presence can point your child back to Christ . Encouragement rooted in Scripture not only builds confidence—it cultivates faith, resilience, and a strong identity in Christ. The Power of Words in Sports Proverbs 18:21 reminds us, "The tongue has the power of life and death." In the world of sports, words shape mindset and motivation. The way you speak to your child about their performance, effort, and character matters. Encourage with intention: Focus on effort and attitude over outcome. Use words that affirm their identity in Christ. Celebrate perseverance, teamwork, humility, and grace. Let your child know they are loved not for how they perform, but for who they are in Christ. Using Scripture to Strengthen and Inspire The Bible is full of verses that speak directly to the heart of an athlete. By weaving Scripture into your encouragement, you anchor your child’s journey in truth and remind them of their eternal worth. Some great verses to share: Philippians 4:13 – "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Isaiah 40:31 – "Those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength..." 1 Corinthians 10:31 – "Whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God." Make a habit of sharing a verse before games or after practices. These small moments plant seeds of faith. Creating a Culture of Encouragement at Home A home rooted in encouragement is a safe place to grow. Deuteronomy 6:6-7 reminds us to talk about God’s truth in daily life—on the way to practice, at the dinner table, and in the quiet moments after a tough game. Ways to create a faith-filled environment: Speak life into your child with Scripture. Celebrate growth, not just wins. Pray together regularly about their athletic journey. Your words and actions together model what Christian perseverance and humility look like. The Role of Community Support Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 says, "Two are better than one... if either of them falls, the one will lift up his companion." Community matters. Teammates, coaches, and fellow parents can either lift up or tear down. Be intentional about surrounding your child with a Christ-centered support system. Look for ways to: Encourage other athletes and their families. Get involved in FCA huddles or church-based sports ministries. Foster relationships with mentors who pour into your child’s spiritual life. The presence of a godly community reinforces the values you instill at home. Encouragement in the Face of Setbacks Disappointment is part of every athlete’s story—but so is growth. Romans 5:3-4 reminds us that suffering produces perseverance, character, and hope. Help your child reframe failure as an opportunity to grow closer to God . When setbacks come: Remind them of God’s purpose even in hard seasons. Speak words of life, not criticism. Encourage them to journal or pray through their struggles. This teaches them to lean into God—not their performance—for peace and identity. Long-Term Impact of Encouragement Rooted in Faith Encouragement builds more than confidence—it builds spiritual foundations. Over time, your support teaches your child to: See themselves through God’s eyes. Lead others with humility and faith. Pursue goals with both excellence and grace. Proverbs 22:6 says, "Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it." Your encouragement today echoes into their future. Reflection Questions for Parents: How can I better align my encouragement with God’s truth? What Scripture can I begin speaking regularly into my child’s athletic life? How can I build a more intentional culture of encouragement at home? When you speak words filled with faith, love, and truth, you’re doing more than motivating an athlete—you’re discipling a young believer. And that’s a win that will last forever.
"Train yourself in godliness, for the training of the body has limited benefit, but godliness is beneficial in every way..." – 1 Timothy 4:7-8 As a Christian coach, your calling goes beyond helping athletes win games—you’re shaping disciples. You stand at the intersection of physical development and spiritual transformation. Every practice is not just a time for building strength and skill, but an opportunity to nurture faith, resilience, and character in your athletes. When you intentionally combine physical training with spiritual growth , you raise up athletes who are not only strong in body but deeply rooted in Christ. Why Physical Training Is Only Half the Equation Athletic training is vital—it teaches discipline, grit, and endurance. But Scripture reminds us that while training the body has some value, godliness holds eternal worth. As you push your athletes to grow physically, remind them that their spiritual development is just as important. Hebrews 12:11 says, "No discipline seems enjoyable at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it." Discipline—both physical and spiritual—prepares athletes to face adversity with a Christ-centered mindset. Ways physical training can point to spiritual truth: Conditioning = endurance through trials (James 1:2-4) Strength-building = dependence on God’s strength (Philippians 4:13) Teamwork = body of Christ in action (1 Corinthians 12) Coaching with Eternal Impact As a coach, your influence stretches far beyond the scoreboard. You’re modeling what it means to follow Christ in every moment. Whether in drills or in post-game huddles, your words and actions help athletes shape their faith. Colossians 3:23 encourages us, "Whatever you do, do it from the heart, as something done for the Lord and not for people." Remind your team that their workouts, games, and efforts matter—not just to you, but to God . Ideas for integrating faith into coaching: Open practice with prayer or a short devotional. Use Scripture to frame themes like perseverance, unity, or humility. Celebrate character and spiritual growth—not just stats. Developing Spiritually Resilient Athletes Success in sports requires resilience. But spiritual resilience is what carries athletes through both victory and disappointment. Romans 5:3-4 reminds us that suffering produces perseverance , character, and hope. How to foster spiritual resilience: Challenge athletes to reflect on what God is teaching them through adversity. Create a safe space for prayer and encouragement among teammates. Affirm identity in Christ over performance. When athletes know their worth isn’t tied to wins or losses, they compete with peace and joy. Practical Coaching Strategies If you’re ready to fully embrace the dual role of trainer and spiritual mentor, start with small, consistent steps: Establish spiritual goals alongside athletic ones. Set aside time during the week for faith discussions or Scripture memory. Build mentorship moments—connecting athletes with godly leaders. Highlight fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23) as coaching values. This holistic approach transforms your team from just athletes into ambassadors for Christ. The Bigger Picture: Preparing Athletes for Life In 1 Corinthians 9:24-25, Paul compares the Christian life to a race—one that requires discipline, focus, and a goal greater than earthly rewards. Your role is to equip your athletes not only to win on the field, but to finish strong in faith. Every sprint, rep, and game is a chance to point them toward Jesus. Reflection Questions for Coaches: How can you consistently reinforce both physical and spiritual growth in your athletes? In what ways can you help athletes process competition through a biblical lens? What faith rhythms can you build into your training schedule? By coaching with eternity in mind, you’re doing more than preparing athletes for competition—you’re preparing them to live boldly for Christ.
"The Lord is near the brokenhearted; He saves those crushed in spirit." – Psalm 34:18 In youth sports, disappointment is inevitable . Whether it’s losing a game, missing a goal, or not making the team, these moments can feel crushing for young athletes. But as Christian parents, you have a powerful opportunity: to turn these challenges into spiritual growth. By leaning on God’s Word and creating a loving, faith-filled environment, you can help your child develop resilience that lasts a lifetime. Understanding Disappointment Through a Biblical Lens Disappointment hurts, but it’s not without purpose. Romans 5:3-4 reminds us, " We also rejoice in our afflictions, because we know that affliction produces endurance, endurance produces proven character, and proven character produces hope. " Helping your child see that setbacks are a part of God’s refining process shifts the focus from defeat to development. Use these moments to: Affirm their worth in Christ – Their identity is not in stats or standings, but in being a child of God. Help them reflect on what God may be teaching them. Share stories from Scripture – Like Joseph’s journey from rejection to leadership (Genesis 37–50). Start with Compassion and Connection Before offering advice, offer presence. Disappointment can be isolating. Be quick to listen, slow to speak (James 1:19). Let your child know it’s okay to grieve a loss or feel discouraged. Validate their feelings and remind them that God is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). Practical ways to connect: Ask open-ended questions like, “What hurt the most today?” Pray together , inviting God into the moment. Speak truth – Use verses like Jeremiah 29:11 to reinforce hope and purpose. Encourage Resilience Rooted in Faith Teaching your child to bounce back isn’t just about grit—it’s about trusting God in the process . Philippians 4:13 reminds us, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." This strength includes the courage to try again after a letdown. How to build faith-driven resilience: Celebrate effort over outcome. Talk about God’s plan being bigger than today’s results. Create a habit of reflection—asking what they learned, how they grew, and where God showed up. Use Mentorship and Community as Support God often works through relationships. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 reminds us, "Two are better than one... if either falls, his companion can lift him up." Surround your child with trusted mentors and faith-filled community members who can walk alongside them. Mentorship helps by: Providing perspective from someone who’s been there. Reinforcing spiritual truths in a different voice. Helping normalize challenges and provide encouragement. Look into programs like FCA or faith-based youth mentorship groups to strengthen your child’s support system. Create a Spiritually Supportive Home Culture Your home is your child’s safe haven. Create an atmosphere where success is celebrated, but spiritual growth is prioritized. Deuteronomy 6:6-7 encourages us to talk about God’s truths “when you sit in your house and when you walk along the road...” Ideas to build this environment: Use Scripture in everyday conversation. Do short devotionals after tough games. Model grace when things don’t go your way. Long-Term Impact of Faith-Rooted Resilience Children who learn to face disappointment through a biblical lens don’t just become better athletes—they become spiritually grounded adults. Psalm 73:26 says, "My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart, my portion forever." They’ll carry this mindset into school, relationships, and future careers—confident not in themselves, but in the God who holds their story. Final Encouragement: Faith Through Every Failure According to studies, nearly 70% of kids drop out of sports by age 13, often due to pressure and burnout. But a faith-centered perspective can shift that trend. When young athletes know their worth is secure in Christ—and that disappointments are part of the journey—they’re more likely to stay committed, balanced, and joyful. Reflection Questions for Parents: How do I respond when my child faces disappointment? What biblical truths can I speak into their life in tough moments? How can I foster a home environment that blends love, truth, and spiritual support? As you guide your child through highs and lows, remind them: every loss is an opportunity to lean deeper into God’s love. And in doing so, they’ll grow—not just as athletes, but as disciples.
